Bollywood icon Sanjay Dutt's daughter, Trishala Dutt, has unveiled a profound and thoughtful note on her Instagram stories, addressing relationships, self-awareness, emotional responsibility, and reciprocity. Trishala, who actively engages with her followers by sharing personal and emotional journeys, has once more communicated a significant message through her post.
A Lengthy Note by Trishala
Trishala Dutt wrote, 'You cannot grow for someone else. This is not about punishing or leaving a relationship, but it's a fact.' She emphasized that when a person continuously avoids reflection, shirks responsibility, repeats harmful patterns, and makes no real efforts for change, the relationship stops being love and instead becomes emotionally draining.
She further noted, 'You become the one who bends, explains, regulates, forgives, and adapts, while they remain unchanged. This isn't love. You should only stay when there's mutual understanding, not necessarily perfection, pace, or movement.'
Offering advice to view relationships objectively, Trishala prompted her audience with questions, writing, 'In the past 6-12 months, has this person shown a consistent pattern of self-examination? Have their behaviors changed post-apology? When you withdraw, do they step up or penalize you? And when you set boundaries, do they respect them or see them as rejection?'
Source: aajtak
In conclusion, she wrote, 'If most answers are 'no,' then your staying isn't compassionate. It's merely participating in your own depletion, which is your responsibility.' Trishala also pointed out that enduring emotional neglect repeatedly is not compassion but a participation in one's own fatigue.
Trishala Dutt is the daughter of Sanjay Dutt and his first wife Richa Sharma. Richa was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 1989 and sadly passed away in 1996. Raised in the United States by her grandparents, Trishala has been living abroad since childhood and is a professional psychotherapist.
