A 28-year-old from Singapore revealed how his parents decided to cancel all Christmas family gatherings this year. He said his parents felt embarrassed by his lack of career success compared to relatives. He shared this experience through a Reddit post, explaining how coming from a family that deeply values academic and career achievements, his relatives include doctors, lawyers, senior executives, or company owners, while his cousins hold high-paying jobs.
New Attitude After Job Loss
He shared that he wasn't able to excel in college academically. This year, he lost his first job, and finding a new one has been difficult. Adding to his troubles, an error he made at his previous job led to the company's closure, and the owner discussed this on a podcast, increasing his embarrassment. Since the job loss, his parents have changed their behavior towards him, speaking less and ignoring him more. In anger, they canceled all Christmas programs, stating they couldn't face relatives.
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Feeling Utterly Discouraged
He stated his parents compare him to his cousins, who have become doctors, positioned highly in significant companies, and bought homes and cars. They've told him he should feel ashamed and questioned why he hasn't achieved the same. His successful older brother adds to these comparisons, heightening the pressure. The young man shared how he's struggled with anxiety and depression since college and now feels incredibly discouraged.
Seeking Advice Through Reddit
Through his Reddit post, he sought advice on coping with the high expectations placed by families. The post received numerous reactions, with many criticizing the parents' behavior. Several users stated parents should support their child instead of belittling or comparing them to others. Some advised him to focus on himself and distance from such a negative environment.
